friendship and love life

Everything is going to be fine.

I was looking for a girlfriend for 8 years, before my relationship started and it was not with one of the girls I was actively looking for.

Love is one of the few things, you can not plan. So don't. Don't force yourself to marry someone, just to have married anyone.

I know the feeling, but try to trust in destiny and try to understand: Nobody knows you better than you do, so you can be your perfect partner, if you appreciate yourself. You can take yourself out for your favorite dinner, or for a nice movie in the cinema. You can take yourself shopping, or to whatever else you like.

Just be good to yourself. Once you do that, you will get much more confident and attractive, because people get jealous of you being happy and they would like to be part of your happiness.

You can also concentrate on your carrer and become the person you always wanted to be.
I wanted to become an electrical engineer, wearing checkered shirts, understanding how electronics work and now I do

Moving on from a relationship can be really hard, even when you are the one ending it and when you see why it was a toxic relationship. Focusing on yourself, your happiness, your career and doing things you love is really the best advice. Treat yourself like the amazing person that you are, and learn to love yourself and to be happy within.

It will make so much sense when you meet someone who is the right one for you, even if it happens when you least expect it. But until then, focus on your career as you mention, on self love, and doing things that make you smile. 💚